Note – when Vidarbhi was grief struck and she had no one else to lean on, she decided to end her life. Unfortunately, she had totally forgotten the Lord who alone can save us.

When all the external support was lost, she became utterly helpless. Then the Lord who resides in her heart (Antharyami) appeared before her.

(Remember, Kunthi devi prayed for problems and unhappiness as it would bring the Lord to her help) .

As Avinjnatha reminds Vidarbhi (Puranjana), all our miseries arise when our memory gets filled with worldly thoughts and mind seeks pleasure. We forget that unending joy can be achieved through the remembrance of the Lord only.

As long as you are stuck up in your (limited) intellect or Budhi, the INFINITE SUPREME remains inaccessible.

Thus advised, she became aware of her true nature as the ever shining Self, beyond gender, body, mind and intellect.

 (Bhagavatham 4.28.52 – 4.28.65)