1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Dear Swamiji, My son parks his car in by brothers house nearby with his permission. It is easy to take in and out car from there than my res. My brother is not staying here but comes weekly and do all maintenance work at home and go. Last time he locked his gate with chain and a big Godrej lock and told my sister that my son is not properly parking his car and obstruct his passage to his house. This hurt my son very much. He said he could have told to park properly or do not park there instead locked the gate for not entering the car in his house insulted him very much as they were very close and in good terms. He said even our neighbors will not do like this and he said he will not talk to him or go to his house in future. My brother used to go to major temples regularly and hear sapthaham and follow your lectures and advise others how to live with dharmic values. We used to discuss your Q & A session which is very informative. How such a person can behave like this. i can stand with my son only. This i said to show how small incidents spoil our family relationship. Since both of them are your followers, request you to advs them. Tks & Regds..
Posted by S. Vasu Elayath. on June 17, 2019
Our behaviors are a sum of our instincts (vasanas) and experiences we acquire from outside. When we hear good advices or interact with noble thoughts(satsang) we tend to refine ourselves, our values and character. I am sure your brother is a great person too, but something bothered him. Since he had a good relation with your son, he probably felt uncomfortable talking to him straight which created more misunderstandings. In all intimate relations open communication is vital, because both parties will be hurting if ego comes in or stays long. Now you can act as a bridge between the two people. Tell your son and brother to forgive each other. Facilitate a conversation. He can park his car somewhere else moving forward but let the misunderstanding be removed at any cost. Let Uncle and son become friends again. Hari Om.
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