1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Dear swamiji, I would like to get a lot of positive energy in my house because it is missing unfortunately.. though I’ve a good husband and a son, I don’t like my house environment.. my in laws are not in peace with each other for years now.. they think in two different extremes and fight with each other.. that was mainly after the entry of father’s sister in law into their house. as she didn’t have children they were taking care of het for these many years.. she is totally a negative hearted person and has troubled all of us a lot with her negative ways of speaking and troublesome behaviour.. now she’s old and sick.. still giving hell lot of troubles.. swamiji, i was brought up in a peaceful atmosphere ..though my parents had no good financial set up my house was peaceful.. still in my life i desperately want that peace.. after going to my parents i don’t feel coming back to my house again.. please advice how can i make my home a good one?
Posted by Simi on December 29, 2016
You have a Son. What if your daughter-in-law tomorrow does not like your house for whatever reason and wishes she could be at her parent’s place? I understand your frustration in not being able to deal with the negativities in that house. We welcome a girl in the Hindu tradition to the husband’s house saying, “May you be the Queen here”. Saying that you be the queen, also puts the responsibility on you, to run that Kingdom well. There is an Aunt, who has no children, much at the mercy of the people in your house. The first thing you can do is to be her daughter, ignoring all the irritabilities in her character. It may be hard at first, but do it as a seva to Bhagavan. If she feels respected and loved, she will stop creating hell to receive attention. And things will improve between your in-laws. Being isolated is the most horrible state a human being can experience. Help your Aunt. You will be blessed for it and everything will fall in place. Your husband and in-laws will respect you for being kind, even if they don’t show it. My blessings are with you, May your nobility create light in your house. Hari Om.
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