1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Dear Swamiji , My son is studying in 10th Std CBSE school. He is always playful. Since he is in 10th Std he is supposed to study atleast 3 hours daily. He hardly spends half an hour for his study. Most of the time either he is busy with his home work or projects. Unless told to him he avoids sitting with a book to study. We have also taken him to a adolescent pyschologist to give him more inputs on memorizing techniques and study timetable. He does not follow any of the inputs given to him on study matter. His average grade for the first term falls in 60-70%. Inspite of repeated advice to him on all real life situations if his academic grades are poor, he does not take things seriously. He has no fear of exams nor he has the fighting spirit to compete with his peers. He does not listen to our advices on a daily basis 365 days in a year. Kindly help us to handle him since his board exams are fast approaching. I had attended your discourse at Bangalore on 16th Jan 2017.
Posted by G Pradeep Kumar on January 19, 2017
Let us put his studies aside for a bit. What are the other things your son enjoys? What are the activities that you do with him? How many hours/ minutes a day do you have a heart to heart conversation with your child, outside advising him to study or scaring him that there is a competitive world out there. Parents have to grow up with their children if they want an output they expect. Do you realize how his projects and homework may be stressing him? I want you to take him out for an activity that he enjoys this weekend and have a good chat with him on issues other than studying. Consciously refrain from advising him. Let him feel a bit at ease first. Don’t worry, he will perform well in his boards. But, we need to remove the boredom about studying from his mind first. If you want him to do well, you have to establish a good relation with him first, that your concern about him becomes his aspiration to do well. Write back to me after a fun weekend with him. Hari Om.
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