1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Dear Swamiji, Namaskaram !! I read your points on how to control our thoughts to enable us to lead a positive life . One of the thoughts in my mind is now regarding the friend ship of my husband with his close friends wife. They are very close friends and my husband visits their house daily and sits there till 10’o clock in the evening . My husband and the said lady arranges parties , they plan trips , finding places to go , but arranged family trips only . I am not comfortable to attend these , but attend for the sake of others. She enjoy the photo of my hubby in the face book by zooming the photo in front of me and keep looking at his face for a long time . Some months before , when her husband gone for a training for three days , she panickly called my hubby over phone and he rushed to her house fearing that some thing happened , but she was fooling him . That night he came home @ 12.30pm. Now they shifted their to their new house about 5-6km away , but are in regular contact. Last week we both visited their house , she came and sits closely to him and they chatted for a long time . How can I think positively in all these circumstances? I am working and my schedule is very hectic , there is no time to ponder over these thoughts , but the sights in front of our eyes ,how can we avoid and focus positively only ? Please guide me otherwise my thoughts about their relationship itself will grow in to a big disaster as per your comments. Pranams Radha.
Posted by Radha on July 9, 2017
You feel upset because you think a friend’s wife is a better companion for your husband than you are. How does her Husband feel? Have you spoken to your husband about it? From what you have written she seems to be doing things that your husband enjoys, when you should be the one doing it. You cannot become her. But you will have your own positive qualities over her. That should be your strength. What are the things that you do and your husband appreciates? Find time to do things as a family with your children and other family members. He should feel he belongs to you, not to a friend or his family. Instead of worrying about what she does, think about what you can do to add color to your life. Hari Om.
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