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Dear Swamiji, My friend’s son is in love with a nair girl. He is from Brahmin family. Both families agreed for marriage on a condition that after marriage she will be a brahmin lady. Now their priest made some problems ie; if she has to be in brahmin family, somebody from boy’s family has to adopt her and then do the customs. The girls parents will hv no role in the stage and they hv to sit in the audience and the adopted father has to do all customs from the girls side. This is objected by girls parents. What they are telling- since she has parents, why shud somebody adopt her and since boy is marrying her as per his customs and rituals, she will automatically come to his family. They can adopt a girl from an orphanage and not if her parents are alive. This problem is not yet sorted out. Swamiji, what is your opinon on this issue. Pls advs.