1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Hariohm.dear Swamiji,Last few months I am very depressed,the reason is I was very attached to a person who was also very close to me..he is 25yrs younger to me..he thought I only knew wht he needed and had told me to look for a girl to get married..and after 3yrs of search and after alot of problems I managed to find a suitable match for him and he got married 3 months back..after tht he was keeping away and told tht his wife doesnt want him to keep in touch with me.I felt so hurt and seeing his ungratefulness it has hurt me alot..I did not keep in touch with him after that..he tried to chat wt me two times but i am so hurt mentally and in my heart…I know he has alot of lv for me but his that behaviour has depressed me so much..I believe in god alot and did alot of prayers for him..now he is again trying to get in touch with me.. I dont know wht to do..I know god brought him into my life like a good friend and we became so close and attached and now this is the situation..though i am very angry with him for wht he has done n how he behaved wit me immediately after his marriage.still I have affection for him..Maybe now god is again bringing him back tomy life…swamiji pls advise wht I should I do? should I frogive him and accept him and extend my same lv and care to him or just forget and not to keep in touch with him… I am very much disturbed with this..Pls swamiji do advise me so that I can have a peace of mind.This guy is no way related to me.we became good friends and I did everything for him..I believe god brought him intomy life and wanted me todo allthis for him …should i forgive him and accept him as before? Pls advise me dear Swamiji…so many pujas n prayers I had done for him also..
Posted by Prasanna Krishnan on December 3, 2011
Dear Prasannaji,
We have to transform our emotional mind into devotional mind. Some times our love becomes “love…hate” relationships.
It is because we expect the same love and affection that we give, in return from the other person too. It may not always happen.
Now that you have realized the Truth, focus your mind on the Lord only. Be helpful to every one, thanking God for that opportunity. But it is wiser to stay away from entanglement and attachment as it will spoil your peacefulness and disturb others too.
Please spend your time for giving Knowledge to young children, that will create a bright society tomorrow.
HariOm!
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