1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Hi Swamiji, Two months back i got married, arranged marriage. Now i’m facing problems with my partner. Have come to know that we two are poles apart in terms of behaviour, likes, dislikes,lifestyle. Came to know that she was in affair with a guy after our engagement but she sacrificed that for her family n this marriage. She didn’t tell me that before. I came to know that through her emails. Before marriage she use to drink alcohol n party hard. It seems that she misses it. She also has male friends with whom she chats a lot on mobile. In short she is very materialistic. She also doesn’t appreciate my interest towards spirituality n philosophy. According to her it is outdated n she doesn’t require spirituality to lead her life. Now, i’m feeling helpless. Sometimes she says that I deserved a better girl. N that she is lucky that she got married to me,etc. A part of me loves her but another part is very confused about our future. Please guide if possible.
Posted by Sameer on July 27, 2015
You should use this time to get to know each other better than hoping she behaves your way. Focus on what you can do to be more understanding of her. Marriage and new family is a big transition for a girl. Slowly involve her in the ways of your life, talk openly to find out what her interests are. There is no black and white or good and bad in life. An attitude of acceptance and self transformation is important. Hari Om
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