1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Hi, My wife’s sister was married last year (Arranged marriage) to a good family and at the time of marriage my wife’s sister did not have any affair. After Marriage something did not happen right and she indulged in an affair with one of her friends, this was caught by her husband as he found one of the chats. After long quarells she admitted to her mistake. The boy’s parents are ready to accept her and have just asked her to forget the past and live a good life with the husband. Husband is also supportive. The boyfriend has also asked her to listen to her family and live with her husband happily. We are all trying but for some reasons she is still not able to live happily. Everybody has mentioned that they have forgiven her but she is not able to lead normally. She has a highly wavering mind and highly moody. Currently they are with us in USA and will soon move out to another location. Husband wants to talk to her but sometimes she ignores her inspite of making such as big mistake. Swamiji – Please guide us on what we should do to bring her to the right path. We believe she has got a new life and inspite of such a big mistake and insulting her parents, her inlaws are ready to accept her. We have asked her to read bhagavatha geetha and do meditation and likhitha japam but she is not listening to us. She keeps quiet and sometimes is arrogant to her husband. Husband is patient and is trying to bring her back into his life. Please advise.
Posted by Santosh on June 15, 2015
Please understand that she is under an obligation now with all her family and relatives for their favour.
You must know that generally people do not like to feel obliged as it gives an inferior feeling.
She is holding onto her stand as she does not want to be corrected or rather admit her mistake. It is a blow to her self esteem or pride.
You need to seek help from a third person or a professional consultant who can bridge the gap between both partners.
Then as a seemingly compromising adjustment she will agree to take your side.
It will appear to be a ‘win… win’ situation for her.
Please evaluate my suggestion and proceed according to your conviction.
HariOm!
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