GREETINGS

Swamiji:

Your answer is in your question itself. You are in a confused state of mind. To maintain a good relationship, clarity is most important  and then commitment. You are too early in marriage to think of a separation. When is the last time you have spoken to your wife in sweet words?  When is the last time you made her feel important in your life? As days go by in marriage, you should not take your spouse for granted.  If you missed out on making your wife aware of your love and care, that is what you need to do first. Harsh talks, unkind comments and careless attitude hurt women, a lot more than their husbands understand. No woman will ever leave a husband who makes her feel important in his life.  Now, if she did make a mistake, be bold enough to step up as her husband. You own your wife, no one else. Tell her you are forgiving the mistake and taking her back into your life fully, like a parent would forgive the mistake of a child.  You will be respected by her. You have to reclaim your wife with your gentleness and good behavior. When she feels your heart is open to her, she will always find comfort in you only. My prayers for a fulfilling journey with her. Hari Om.