1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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I am a working woman. My MIL is sick and down with cancer for 2.5 years now and we are taking care of her. The problem is I do not mind taking care of her but she is too sarcastic and hurts me with her sharp words and tries to dominate even now. The only mantra which my husband keeps telling me is ADJUST and that is what I have been doing now for the past 15 years. My husband’s sisters and brothers are staying abroad and all they do is just call and enquire over phone & come and spend their yearly vacation of 5-10 days with us. But Whenever they send us photos of travelling like Disney land, Grand canyon, Zoo etc (America photos) with their families, I am not able to digest. Instead of enjoying the photos I become jealous…Here we are not even able to go out to temples during weekends or take my children out and they keep enjoying their lives. I am upset for 2-3 days and then come back to normal and start adjusting again…As of now my husband becomes my target and I do not talk to him/show my face those days Is this normal or am I wrong somewhere…What should I do to control myself whenever it erupts??
Posted by Lekshmy on October 19, 2012
Dear Lekshmyji,
The service which you do, you may not recognize now. But understand, every one has to face reality called destiny.
Just like shadow follows us, the destiny too follows us. If you keep a smile and serve her and keep your mind more positive, the energy which you vibrate around will never go waste. It will come back to you when you badly need it.
You know action will follow equal action, so is the case of your service.
Your relatives whom you talk about, do you think, they are really enjoying their trip?
Never, their mind will carry guilty concubines that some thing that they are not doing justice to their mother and you.
By merely visiting tourist spots won’t give true happiness.
HariOm!
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