1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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My pranaams to you swamiji….i have 2 sons elder one just completed his 12th std and yet to his classes in college…younger one is in 7th std……my elder son acts so weird..he disrespectes us ….he is always behind his friends ..asks money from us to go out….he takes away my vehicle without even asking me…..he is always with his friends or with his phone during midnight too….he never prays or comes to temple even if we plead him. If we beat him he too comes to beat us back. Really uncontrollable. Moreover he’s into an affair with a girl of his school same class. How much ever we advise him or scold him or her…they are not changing. In school days he lost interest in studies and troubled us a lot by not going to school and scored only just 1st class in 12th. Now we are scared of he would go to college regularly. When he will become a good natured obedient boy. Pls help us advise us swamiji.
Posted by Sita lakshmi on July 25, 2017
I totally understand your pain and concern. Your son is at an age where he is trying to establish his existence in this world. He will feel challenged by authority, things to achieve and above all, try to get acceptance. Here is where parents need to change. Someone who was just your child yesterday, is now behaving like an enemy, because he sees you as an authority than as a friend. Most parents worry about the child’s future and scold them for not working hard to achieve. Why don’t to make him feel that you and him are trying to reach his goals together. Why don’t you say you want to meet the girl he likes and try to be a good friend/ Aunty of hers too. The only way you can handle a teenager is by being his friend. Because, at this age friends mean the world for them. No need to correct or advice. Instead make him feel you trust his ability to do well in life. Make him feel you believe he will take care of the family, it will slowly transform to be his responsibility. Make him feel he is the most important person in your life, he will have to perform at the important person’s level. Don’t worry, it is growing pains only. He will be okay, you need to love him more, and show him your love too. Hari Om.
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