1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Namaste Swamiji, i am writing here for my 3 year old daughter who is suffering a lot after the arrival of her 6 months old sister. I had written about this to you sometime back and as per your suggestion we are caring her like princess. But she is still very upset. She hurts herself and her mother biting and so many other way. She hurts us more by hurting herself, not eating etc. We are in a nuclear family, mother has to take care of both the kids. She is not able tolerate when mother’s feeds her sister. Otherwise she likes her sister. But she doesn’t want share her mother’s love with sister. Except this she understands more than a child of her age understands. Infact we used learn from her when she prays. she never used to ask anything to god. she used to say ” god I will not cry, I will not do any mischives, nobody from my family will do” .. From last few days she has not eaten properly, she has become very weak. Even in sleep she cries. she is in dilemma, she doesn’t want to lose mother or sister, but doesn’t want to share mother’s love.Kindly help us how can we counsel her.
Posted by Anoop on May 12, 2017
You definitely need the help of a child psychologist here. Your daughter has started to hurt herself in an attempt to get your attention. Is there any family member that can be with you for a few months, so your wife can devout more time to the older one. Or can the mother and children stay in an ancestral home for a few months until her mind settles down. She needs to be with more people, grand parents, uncles, aunts etc. so the focus is not solely on her mother and her baby sister. Remember women went to their homes for a few months in the past around her delivery. This will provide emotional support for the mother and her children. Think of options to get other family members to help. Definitely have a counselor talk to your daughter. Hari Om.
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