1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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namasthe guruji, i am living with my husband for the last 25 years. from the early days itself i have uderstood that my husband is not a caring person. but during last few years i had to face two deaths in my own house…now a days i have suffering from some age related womanly health issues .but my husband is not at all bothered in these matters and not even compassionate to me….when ever i need a medical advice iam going alone to the hospital…this makes me very sad and my complaints to him made no solution. the same thing is repeatedly happening . now i am feeling ashamed of myself thinking about my situation.. i am feeling ashamed that i have been living with such a selfish person who is not sincere to me…..satsang and meditation give relief for some time. more over he is very much impartial and behaves in different to me. swamiji i tried a lot but i couldn’t solve this.. please suggest a solution .. as a human being i am expecting some care from my husband and i think that it was his duty also. more over i am a very dutyful person. kindly make a suggestion………….hari ohm
Posted by Asha on June 9, 2018
I do understand your pain and frustration in not getting the attention or care you rightfully deserve. But holding on to that, as you explained, will create only shame and guilt in you. You should continue your duties as a wife, but also try to find avenues where you will have value, acceptance and recognition. Do some selfless service in a school or hospital near you and you will be surprised how thankful and appreciative strangers are. I hope your question will force all our readers to think if they are giving their family the care and love they deserve. We often take people closest to us for granted. Husband wife relation is a good companionship first, then everything else. But there are other people you may be able to provide and get company from as well. I hope you will soon develop a company of good people around you, so you are not too dependent on your husband. The most important thing is to keep yourself cheerful and productive. Hari Om
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