GREETINGS

pranam swamiji. almost in 90% of the indian family women/girls are always criticized for various things for which they are not directly responsible. Men never make any mistakes is it? if they commit a mistake it is forgiven either because he is “men” or he is the son of the house. everyday i light a lamp in front of god in our pooja room. there is a big vilaku which my mother lights early in the morning, and besides this i will light my vilaku. One day it happened that i woke up early and took bath and lit my vilaku only. ( my mother had gone out of station). my father noticed that main vilaku was not lit. so he came and asked me ” when you were lighting your lamp dint you notice that the main vilaku was not yet lit,you know amma has gone out station right? it is basic sense to do that . This was what he told. For which i replied i dint notice. i was focusing only on what i was doing . truth is i was concentrating. Because i dont separately sit and do meditation, i focus on the work that i do. This is th truth swamiji. But my father is saying, no no, you are simply not bothered about other works , you just do what you are supposed to do. You must also observe around and do other work also. THis is the same line which most of the mother in laws use to complain about their DIL. If a boy or male had done the same thing, they would have simply ignored. There many more instances like this, where women are criticized for mistakes which they dint do. could you please explain about this swamiji.