1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Pranamam swamiji. swamiji how to be detached from the physical life. i am a house wife, i surely will continue my duties for my family. but myself wish to have a detached attitude from the physical life also. Because, small family problems collapse me like anything.. my husband had another relationship before our marriage and he continued that relationship. Eventhough he loves me very much, and doing all his duties, i could not bear that swamiji. i and himself discussed about the matter in home. he promised me that he will never continue that. but i lost my faith in him. what to do swamiji. i am in a frustrated condition. i loved him as my GOD. now he may be sincere to me, but i can’t be open to him. sometimes i feel he cheated me like that. what to do swamiji. i was very much attached to him that made me so sad. swamiji please advise me … i cant discuss this matter to any of our parents or friends as they me complicate the situation. i consider you as my guru. please help me swamiji.
Posted by Radha on November 22, 2016
Marriage, unlike other relations, is truly built on love and trust, as it binds two individuals in their body, mind and energies. Every person going into marriage should be ready for such a commitment to the partner. I understand your frustration in feeling cheated. However, before giving up, let us try to work it out.
Step one is to understand we cannot go back and live in the past. You have written your husband promised he will not repeat the mistake and is sincere to you now. You should know your husband is not “GOD” (though you considered him to be) but human, with all of man’s weaknesses. Give him a chance to improve. You have to become GOD and forgive him. Instead of feeling miserable about his mistake, feel great about your ability to ignore his weakness. When you clear up your mind, you will be able to treat him well. Then he will not find any other woman in the world more loving and attractive than you. I am sure he carries more guilt than you can imagine. He will respect you for just forgetting his misdoing and bringing happiness back in your life together. Imagine the strength of Parvathi in you, and know you are his wife !!! No other woman owns your husband, but you. Live up to it, let him feel your loving and strong presence everyday, that he will not be able to survive without you. My prayers are with you. Hari Om.
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