1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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pranamam swamiji, i know god puts us through tests to see how we control ourselves and act with our bhudhi and not by our feelings.i have been dating a guy from my college.he is really very attractive.all the girls in my college thinks he looks really gorgeous.i know we should not judge people by the outer looks but by the inner beauty of their heart .this guy has been showing particular interest in me and i have begun to start getting attracted to him.i enjoy being with him and i feel physically attracted to him like i never felt before.but deep down inside i feel this is not right.but when he comes closer i feel great and i forget everything else.i think God is putting me through a test to see if i can come out of this stronger and more mature.so,poojya swamiji kindly advice me as to what i should do.should i continue goin out witth him or should i avoid him.and if i go out with him will it affect my studies???please help
Posted by Namitha nair on March 21, 2010
Dear Namitha,
You need to do a thorough and sincere introspection as to what qualities of him attract you towards him. If it is only his physical charm (as it sounds to be), it is better you wean out of this infatuation at the earliest.
Such relationships do not survive long, but will only lead to disappointment later. It will also distract you from your studies and spoil your future.
But, if this person has very good culture and noble interests, you should benefit from his company.
Intelligent persons give more priority to long term happiness than short term pleasures!
Always stick with what gives long term SHREYAS in life!
Hari Om!
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