1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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respected swamiji, my husband is having 2 brothers. they both are very very lazy people. they have there own family with 2 children each. my husband is helping them and looking after all the expenses of them and their family. so they don’t go for any job. they say in a family it is enough for one to do job. but i feel we are doing something wrong. by helping them we are adding to their laziness. but if we ignore them now they will tell i changed my husband. what should we do? if we ignore them they will go for work. are we doing something wrong by helping them? they both are very healthy and they drink also with our money. that hurts me more. i feel they don’t know the value of money because they don’t work. we are working day and night without sleep to hold a family of 11 people.
Posted by Divya on August 28, 2011
Dear Divya,
The best help one can give to others is enabling them to live with self-reliance and self-confidence.
So, ask your husband to convince them gently and lovingly.
A firm “NO’ in the right time will save all from so many problems in future.
Also, you should help them to get employment and support them with encouragement.
HariOm!
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