1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Swamiji, I am regularly chanting vishnu sahasra namam,lalitha sahasra namam and devimahatmayam and namajapam which was inherited from my father and family. Now I am also a father of a son . He is three years old, name swaminath . Now I tell you, iam not a drinker, smoker and I have not got any ill habits. after all my wife is not happy. we both are working class,whatever I do for the family , whatever I speak she will find some mistakes and there is daily arguments which leads to total unhappiness in the family. I tried a lot to find my mistake. She speaks as if I am so cruel. Her behaviour makes me to think as if she is trying hard to weak my mind. There was a time ,I felt,I was deppressed. After hearing your Saptaham in Delhi I feel I can be able to control my mind. But I dont know how to convince my wife , that I am not her enemy, but loving husband.
Posted by Radhakrishnan R Nair on November 6, 2009
Dear Radhakrishnan Nair,
Every one has some or other kind of expectations from others.
When your expressions are not matching with your wife’s expectations, that causes misunderstandings.
You need to observe keenly what your wife’s expectations are. You can have an open discussion with her; it may help.
Every one, especialy women need lot of expressions of love.
They actually want to HEAR that their husband/lover/brother/son love them, especially with a warm hug.
They want to be appreciated; about their own family,cooking, house keeping, dresses etc.
Unaware of this fact, many men do not communicate with such expressions of love.
This disheartens the sensitive woman and she reacts negatively.
So, please try this out and let us know the result!
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