1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Swamiji I am so confused,I really am not able to make a right decision,I would like to have a second child and so does my husband and his family but then my husband said I will have to leave my job,I am very afraid to do that .Its great to have second child but I am afraid as my husband’s job is very hectic I will have to make sacrifices for taking proper care of the child and after all that like many mothers I am afraid I will be taken for granted and won’t be respected and will even lose my financial independence and also I deeply feel based on my past experience and also the experience of others that my husband might not value me when I stop earning. I am also afraid I might get depressed if I go through all these as I have a history of depression and I heard one of my relatives friend killed herself due to past partum depression after having second baby and leaving her job.My son might feel a bit lonely but atleast he will be cared for and looked after well by us.I feel so lost at times.Thanks so much for all your previous answers. Could you please guide me as to how do I take the right decision.
Posted by Preeti on December 3, 2021
Hari Ohm. Whatever desire we have without peace of mind ,that will be not fulfilled, if at all fulfilled the result may cause grief to us at a later stage. The arrival of a second baby is a pleasant happening and the first baby will have a companion and support. But getting disturbed about it is not good as the mother’s mental state will affect the baby. One should be prepared mentally prepared well before conceiving a baby. Mere physical relation might result in the birth of a baby but if we plan and prepare (which can be called as ,vrathanishta) for receiving a baby . For that, one need not resign job, instead punctuality is required .When you want to have a baby ,after one period ,you may get up early in the morning, have bath and do Vishnu Sahasranamam , 21 times santhanagopala mantram imagining the child you want. Should take clean swathic food as blood is formed from food . It would be good if husband also is observing this. Observe this for 14 days. There is all likelihood for having a baby. When you conceive like this the time will bring you all supports to bring up the baby. Now do not worry about job and all but think of a blessed baby.
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