1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Swamiji thanks a lot for your replies but sometimes I find myself so mentally weak ,I feel lost,confused and frustrated with life though I do know I have a lot of blessings in life but I can’t take a decision or make up my mind.These days I find myself getting angry easily and crying easily.I feel so upset and I just can’t make a decision.How do we take important decisions in life,in my life I am not able to decide whether to have a second child or not inspite of thinking for 2 to 3 years.The thing is though my heart wants to have a second child ,my mind says that I am not capable enough mentally or physically to properly give justice to a second child.My husband wants to have a second child but has now stopped pressurising me and left it to me to make the decision and said that I will definitely have to leave the job to take care of the second child but I am not able to make a decision and I feel so lost.I don’t know what to do as I am afraid I will get depressed after leaving my job and sitting at home always as I do have a history of depression.Please give me your valuable guidance.
Posted by Preeti Nair on July 4, 2022
I understand your problems. These problems generally come to working mother’s who want a second child but also requires them to sacrifice their jobs. They are lost in between. Understand that if your mind is stronger you can manage everything. Look back into the life of our great great grand mothers. They used to deliver almost every year but at the same time they managed to take care of the house too. You need not leave your job but can continue working for which you require tremendous strength to manage both. You can have an option of appointing a Nani to take care of the baby. All this can be done but you are unnecessarily getting confused . So what I suggest now is , don’t think about the child or leaving your job. Get up daily at 5.30am and keep on chanting. Recite Vishnusahasranamam after your bath and in the evening daily chant Lalitha sahasranamam. Whenever you get time chant – Amme Narayana, Devi Narayana, Lakshmi Narayana Badre Narayana. Do this for a minimum of one month every single day. This way your mind will guide you on the right path. There is nothing to worry about life . Life is meant to live boldly, courageously and with devotion. If you live your life with confusion or frustration it not only affects your health but destroys the harmony at home , your first child will also get affected by your negative thinking and ultimately you will become a big looser. So do not get into these types of depressive thoughts. Practice and convert your mind to positive and divine thoughts. God will definitely guide you from within. If you regularly practice this the divine itself will solve this confusion for you . If you decide to have a second child this child will be brilliant and matured. This child would turn out to be a great soul who comes through you. Like how Prahalad came through the womb of Khayatu. Let a great child come through you. Initially as mentioned practice japam sincerely for one month and once your mind is stronger and peaceful then in that state of mind whatever you decide that will be appropriate and correct.
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