1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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SwamijiIt has been 23years since I married and my daughter is graduated and working in a private company , son is doing his schooling . After marriage , within one year , my husband borrowed all my gold ornaments to start a business , within five years, he was in huge debts, lost all my ornaments and I had to sell my ancestral property of acres of land – because my one and only sister – was also there in the debtors list , she was in trouble in her husbands house for the same. Years passed and I was working in a small private company with very limited salary all the years , so I could survive some how . He is very popular ‘PAROPAKARI’ image and very attached to temples and daily morning starts his day after visiting nearby Siva temple. He used to drink a lot , late coming to home in the initial days , now that habit reduced a bit . what surprised me is that whatever jobs he do , there is no result in the home and no money he could save , spends for kids or for me all these years . he is very soft spoken , soft nature etc. Is this because of his past vasanas or Karma phalam that he could not be a success in his career / business etc?For me , no issues , am used to difficulties and ready to sacrifice everything for my kids. But all my relatives and society looks him in a an attitude that he is not at all contributing anything to family , instead spoiled everything .Last year my father died , was worried all the time thinking about his two daughters . My mother is now 72years and she is equally worried about me , they are old people , they cannot change the mind at all. Hearing the latest news about girls facing issues in husbands house , I am thinking why they behave so indifferently to their wives without respecting her individuality , sincere love , dedication , good family back ground , very good education , good looking etc. etc. Change should begin from each home . I have the responsibility because I have a daughter as well as a son . I should equip them with necessary life skills otherwise there will be troubles in their lives too.After all , LIFE is not a story to be taught , it should be experienced and live to the best .PranamamRadha
Posted by Radha on May 31, 2020
Hari Ohm. I could understand you are very much concerned about your husband, and it is unfortunate that you didn’t use your time to make yourself strong. It is true that human minds are interconnected. if one person is weak and very low in attitude and action ,the other person has to influence weak mind with a strong and positive mind. In Mahabharatha war when Arjuna’s mind dipped Krishna lifted his mind and spirits. If you are very strong by your japam and meditation your husband would have come out from his negative attitudes. Most of the women fail to emerge stronger but spend their time in finding fault with the weak minded ,negative persons and lamenting about their fate.Here we are not to push down anyone ,rather we should pull them up and motivate . For that we need a very peaceful ,devotional and strong mind. From now , please develop such creative mind and let Krishna act and play through you. Become a guru in your own house not a victim.
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