GREETINGS

Swamiji:

It is not the children, but the parents who need help in such situations. Children are victims just as the husband and wife themselves are. It is important to know the purpose of why a man and woman should be sharing a life. Unfortunately, most people just go into a married life like a routine thing to do, since everyone else does. Pre-marital counseling is very important. In olden days, we had parents and older relatives who would advise wisdom or take care of children when parents fought. The best thing to help such children, is to educate and support the parents. It is important for women to be strong, self-reliable and unshaken. It is when a woman feels helpless, that she fights the most. Ask your mother to consciously stay away from fighting for 21 days and chant Lalita Sahasranamam daily. She will be surprised by the way your father will change. Hari Om.