1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Two weeks back, I had a misunderstanding with my father in law. He is not talking with me anymore, Once I tried to speak but it seems he is ignoring. I am staying with my in laws from almost two years with all due respect even though I have came across partiality but I ignore all those things, because that is not at all my concern. He is a very kind person to everyone and help all other families except his own wife and sons, I always saw he degrades his son never ever appreciate for whatever good they do but never miss a opportunity to scold them. I believe that that is not a good attitude and my husbands says he use to ignore that from childhood. I never seen such thing from my family so can’t take that anymore so I reacted to one such situation because he was comparing girls and boys saying all those things. I believe that those who don’t appreciate for anything never have the rights to degrade also. My husband is feeling bad because I am not talking to his father, I am just ignoring everything and only concentrating on my inner bliss which I don’t want to loss. But I don’t know what to do in this situation.
Posted by Unknown on May 11, 2017
You reacted to your father-in-law out of your concern and love for your husband. But when the relationship between you and the father becomes strained, the person who hurts the most is your husband. You are right in your perspective but in a joint family situation it is important to keep the bridges open. Just walk up to your father in law and tell him that his harshness does hurt your husband and you reacted to his behavior out of your love for his son. Your father in law will be happy that you stood up for his son. Do apologize for any inappropriate words you said, and ask forgiveness as his child. Since he is a kind person as you say, things will fall in place. Never allow a fight within the family to run over one or two days. The longer it stays, the tougher to get things better. Hari Om.
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