1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Pranam swamiji… I am asking a tripical question, which a person in seldom ask. A person is suffering due to wrong selection of his wife. For the life long he is suffering due to his partner. The husband is advising for a change in the atititude..and follow the good words preached by intellectuals ,doctors and so many, but not listening. she is having her own way. The children are being advised wrongly by her. The husband is so suffocating. He is spending huge amount for the study of children, but not getting the proper results out of it. Her parents are ignoring the rquest of the man and not even enquring what happens in their life. Instead they advise her to fight withhim and if need be you come and stay with us…. The man selected her at the time he was not matured, so the his parents says..this was your selection..so you suffer, we have no say. These parents are always with japa and spending lot of money in rituals in temples, but they failed to bring up their children with ethics.. They used to quareel in their whole lilfe….. In your words, you say, it is bhagawans prasadam. The man used to say always that this will happen in future..please be cautious inyour life..they never listened to him. But alll happenings is according too his words.. Is it the fault of that person. Or it is due to the smal mistake he has done while selecting his wife. Also it is said that “Namukku Vidichethe varukayullu”. Instead of all the problems, due to monetary loss, defamation, etc. . he is still living courageously without anybody’s help, but ONLY THE ALMIGHT..LORD KRISHNA.. Please give your valued advise so that I can just inform them, though they may not listen..
Posted by S.Nair on October 23, 2015
Whoever this husband is, if his words are not honoured by others, there must be some reason.
If he is not loved by family, there must be some reason.
Instead of finding fault in every body else, he must go deeper into himself and introspect what is repeatedly going wrong in his life.
Only he can find out what is the root cause of problem.
May be he believes and imagines that others are against him and reality becomes so.
May be he was trying the same techniques to convince them, so he has to find a working method.
He has to analyse the resourceful and unresourceful thoughts that he entertains, which becomes words and actions later.
Regular meditation will turn obstacles into opportunities.
My blessings and prayers,
HariOm!
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