1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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i am 29yrs old.My husband is a software engineer.I am a house wife.We have no children.I am with him for 10 years.Since our relationship started, he has been busy with his work. Now he has no time for anything. He doesnt think about me. He is not ready to do anything for me. He becomes so self centered.Since he is soo stubborn, he is not ready to meditate.My health condition was too bad and in my family, we got many tragedies. All these time, He didnt even try to know the issues or console anybody including me. Actually, he doesnt have that much problems as he says. he finds excuses for not doing anything for me or others.Till now, He is not ready to take any kind of responsibility as a husband.We have no children, because he is afraid.He is a combination of lazyness and fear. As a wife, i care him for everything.Till today, i havent say ‘no’ to his wishes.But he is like a boy inside a cage.I think he is not confident enough.But I tried to console him and help him to make confidence. But failed.Nowadays he considered me only as servent who must be very obediant to his orders. Now he has become addicted to alcohol.How can i help him to get out of this mental state?
Posted by Veena on December 2, 2016
Let us think of you, before we think of your husband. You need to make your life more productive and vibrant. Try to find a job or be involved in other social activities. Listen to uplifting talks on youtube or internet to boost your confidence. Whatever little things you do with your husband, do it with enthusiasm. Stop asking him to do things for you. It may be hard in the beginning but the more self- reliant you become, the more respectable you are. Make sure you talk with compassion. You can use anecdotes or stories to explain certain situations to him. May be, he will realize your pain that way, than when you are confrontational. Believe in your power first and display your strength always. Remain prayerful. Life is beautiful, realize it and live up to it. Hari Om.
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