GREETINGS

Swamiji:

A teenager’s mind is like sponge. Though they may not listen when you advise, they carefully watch what you do. If a mother can demonstrate her attitude of bhakti, as a means to remain strong and deal with the challenges of life, they will adopt it. Quite often we display bhakti as a means of getting our things done, thus degrading Bhagavan to the level of a “problem solver or supplier”. This will only turn off the inquisitive teenager from such practices. Involve them in the festivals and rituals at home, have them do some of it. Do Namajapam loudly and melodiously so they feel it is soothing. Discuss the benefits of yoga and pranayama from a medical viewpoint. When they tell you a problem, along with suggesting the solution, tell them the importance of surrendering and accepting the divine will, always. Values are always learned from home. What you do at home, is going to be your child’s set of values. Demonstrate care, commitment, hard work, compassion, strength, fearlessness, and humility. Become a good role model. Hari Om.