1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
READ MORE
Namaskaram Swamiji!! I am 32 years old girl. I am working in a technology company in Bangalore. I read lot of books and love to listen your teaching and Bhagvath Geetha.I have been through lot of emotional trauma in my life, as I had break up after marriage, then my dad passed away due to cancer. Post break up, I didn’t try for marriage for some years because I was not ready for marriage. Now I am getting proposal but nothing is getting culminated to marriage. My Mom is worried about that; I also get worried at sometimes thinking what will happen to me. Is marriage everything in life and is marriage very important to feel secured. Now, I have a feeling that I want to get married to someone who is loving, caring and supportive in my life who can be good son to my mom. I am not sure, whether am I expecting too much?? I am also an emotional person; at times when people whom you love a lot if they ignore you or doesn’t respond in a loving manner or what if we are of no importance to them. How to deal with such people though you know you love them and at times I get stressed when people ignore you. Though I keep telling myself that we should not expect anything in return from anybody.Swamiji I am seeking your advice on both these aspects and also need your blessings for my endeavors in life . Hari Om
Posted by Chetna on June 5, 2017
Your anxieties are just the result of re-living a traumatic past. It is always hope and optimism of a better tomorrow that has made people survive tough times. Instead of worrying about getting the ideal person, think what are the things you can do to make the person you get, ideal. Like you said expectations hurt. Instead start being bold about yourself. The real question is not “if marriage is everything”, the right question will be “how do you make marriage everything”. That really requires commitment and 100% sincerity. You should be able to be one with your partner. Conflicts are common, how you resolve it is more important. Instead of defining yourself as a dependent and emotional person who gets hurt easily, look at yourself as someone who will handle any challenge that life would offer, without being resentful or depressed. Keep smiling through everything and be giving. Above all trust your ability to keep loving anyone who needs you, no matter how hurt you were. Hari Om.
No Schedules for this section.
Sapthaham
Date & Time : 02-08-2026 - 09-08-2026
Venue : Kaanhiramattam Koottekav Bhagavati Temple, Ernakulam
Contact Person : Mohandas Remanan
Contact Number : 9895227419/9446862805
