GREETINGS

Swamiji thanks for your reply and for your help in handling the obstacles in the path for self improvement and achieving our real purpose in life.These days I feel our physical looks are so overrated,I have seen some people give that the top most priority in choosing even their life partner and every one strives to be particular shape and a particular colour.I knew in marriage I wanted a good well educated person and someone who can accommodate my flaws as I am a very sensitive person and I am happy that my husband is a very good human being who is mostly calm.When I go to work I see that looks are given so much importance,if one lady wears something good and looks good some other young lady gets jealous.If some colleague who is being nice to you happens to have good features and good colour then people look at it suspiciously and I did overhear some one way that as my husband doesn’t look so good I am drawn towards this guy but really I am not a teenager anymore and I also had good looking guys interested in me before my marriage but I knew what I wanted most as I wanted to live a good life.I feel so angry and insulted and in a workplace we are forced to deal with everyone even if we hate them.I told this to my husband and he says when he trusts me fully I should not be bothered by such people and my husband is a great guy and looks ok but he doesn’t have that perfect colour and features because his parents did not have it.I feel so angry and insulted with such people but can’t tell them anything.Why are looks given so much importance and sometimes even when you know the truth still you are drawn in to such mentality because that’s what you see every day in the outside world.How do we overcome this obstacle.