GREETINGS

Swamiji pranamam, sometimes I have seen however much we try to change our thoughts to positive sometimes when we are at places where there are a lot of negative, judgemental and jealous people our mind pulls us towards negativity but my mind becomes more positive around well behaved genuine people.How do we accept negative people without any bitterness or grudge in our mind.When a girl for almost 25 yrs lives with her parents and her mother does everything for her and is very caring and protective and later when she she has to do everything on her own and take care of her husband and later even the baby,go to work and understand and accept the in-laws who will obviously not be like parents and make adjustments after marriage,how do we accept all that without thinking negative thoughts or thoughts of regret of why we got married.Sometimes I get very exhausted and frustrated and find it difficult to accept.I heard a sermon of Joel osteen where he says difficulties are tests in our life to take us to the next level of maturity and character development and God does not put any difficulty in our life without already giving us the inner strength to deal with it and we just need to realise it and tap into it.Is that really true but still so much change over a period of just 2 to 3 years becomes difficult to accept .