GREETINGS

Respected Swamiji, am writing here because am too much worried about the our elder daughter. We are from a middle class family. Our elder daughter is 24 1/2 year old. She is trying to get a govt job past 2 year. But can’t achieve her aim. We have some financial problem so we don’t have enough liquid cash to get her married. We are trying to sell our land but having delay on that. Everytime when it comes to her there is always a problem. As a mother am very much worried about her. But the real problem is she doesn’t have any worries about life. She is telling me that everything will happen when the right time comes. When i asked her why you are not worried about not getting a job evenafter you try hard she is telling me that woorying doesn’t change anything. She also telling me that don’t think too much about her marriage beacuse she doesn’t have a rush to marry. Everyone is asking me and her about her marriage. Whenever i hear people asking me about her marriage i feel so bad beacuse we are not able to raise money for her marriage. But she is too cool with that. What she is telling me that she has belief in lord shiva. She is asking me to look at others who is with less fortune than us. When she console me like this i feel like she is less responsible compared to other girls of her age. But what she is telling me that she knows her responsibility and the situvation but she doesn’t want to worry about future or past. Beacuse of her attitude everyone is thinking that she is not normal. Am so much worried about her. Kindly give me your advices.