GREETINGS

Swamiji:

Personality derived from the word “persona”, is a sum of your habitual behaviors and emotions. It is an understanding and expression of your SELF. So, for you to express yourself well, the SELF has to be good. Which means, we have to understand what is acceptable about us for others, and what is not acceptable. People always tend to say, “I know myself, I don’t care what others think”!!! This is self deceit. We all care about other people’s opinion of us. Whenever, you have to say “I don’t care what others think” you are realizing what you are doing is unacceptable, and deep inside you, you are guilty and hurting. This will only express as a wrong personality later on, to defend your ego. That is why some people often pretend to be angry, arrogant or carless about other’s feelings. A genuine person always checks his own behavior and constantly improves it.  What do people enjoy about you and what do people hate about you? Improve your value by increasing your acceptable traits and decreasing you unacceptable traits. Hari Om.