GREETINGS

Swamiji:

If you read your question backwards everything will be clear. You forget because you are depressed. You are depressed because you cannot maintain good communication and relations. You don’t improve on those because you are fixated on past misunderstandings. Now let us think of solutions. You just need to love yourself as a person. Focus on all the good skills you have, and whatever people like you for. Go and deliberately be helpful to others. Never say anything that brings disgrace to someone else. Limit your interferences. Involve in things only to the extend that is needed. People often get in trouble with others because they say “too much”. There is a saying in our scriptures that “nothing you say should be hurtful to another person’s dignity, nor should you say something that causes turbulence in another person’s life”. All such dialogues will come back as bad karma to create misery for you. After a few such episodes, you will be frustrated of worsening relations and start wondering why others don’t like me. The solution is to deliberately say only GOOD and stay away from Negativity of all kinds. Your mind will then slow clear up and your life will brighten up too. Hari Om.