1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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pranam swamiji, I would like to thank you as I have found answers to many questions I had here before . I would like to what is my duty as son in law when My wife’s parents don’t have any respect , value and have insulted .Intially I thought some misunderstanding happens and I was ignoring it and respecting them as I was treating like my parents , but they are complete narcissists , it’s their nature and I realized late. !My wife also knows that and they have tried to spoil of mIne and wife relationship . I am working out of India with wife and son here and they want us to come back to India to take my wife’s sister responsibility excluding financial who is still studying including marriage, and they talk as if they got my wife married so that I have to take responsibility of her sister. their mask fell off after I came out of India for work and wife sister was still in 9th std, I know that they exploit all their relatives like use and throw and act as if everyone is there to serve them… Now I am confused if its self respect or ego I am having if I don’t adhere to their expectations.
Posted by Truth seeker on June 18, 2018
We all have duties and rights in all relationships. But being able to realize when we are being used, exploited and being able to set limits is also a responsibility. You have to take care of your wife and son. You have to discuss with your wife to what extend you want to involve or support her family. Whatever you do should be on mutual consensus or such things will create trouble between you. Once you both have decided only do so much. No need to argue/ fight/ disrespect. But no need to raise bars of “help” to the point you feel exploited. Hari Om.
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