GREETINGS

Dear Swamiji I am extremely thankful for your answers and I also understand that it’s now time to follow the spiritual answers in life than keep getting questions and answers.This is just my last question.I have recently got a transfer at work and I am really glad about it because of all the things I went through here,the mental trauma and the sleepless nights.I was told to help the new lady with my desk,she was really in a lot of tension about how she will manage so many work responsibilities and she kept asking me every small thing, I tried to keep my distance and told she can’t expect spoon feeding all the time,she was really upset and hurt and cried and got a panic attack where in she got breathless and her hands got stiff.Though my colleagues supported me saying she surely must have other issues ,I was really truly frightened looking at her, I had no idea she was so weak.Later she told me she also had sleepless nights thinking about work.I now like to keep a distance from people at work so that I don’t get emotionally entangled at work as then it troubles me and I also dont want to be uncaring.How do I understand people correctly and maintain the right distance without being cold and caring.I hope you will guide me with your valuable guidance.