1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Swamiji pranamam, I am Sangeetha Nair, I told my story earlier that I am a divorcee and now I am living with my mother. Now we are accompanied with my uncle who is elder to my mother. He is suffering from throat cancer now. He is not married and nobody is there to take care of him. I can say that nobody is ready to take care of him because he was so cruel to everyone by using bad words towards all of us in our family and making us mentally disturbed. He was a chain smoker, drunkard but use to go to temple always. Even now he is having grudge on my mother, creates situation and use to scold my mother.(ie because our House property is in my mother’s name) My mother is taking care of him now. But without realizing that he scolds my mother. Other thing is he never likes me also. From the beginning he hates me. Swamiji pls tell me how to react in this situation. My mother is tolerating him and doing everything for him. But I am not at all able to accept him. Whenever I see his face my mind will start rolling about all the bad things he spoke and he done to us, but I have to take care of him since there is nobody there in his last days. How should I tolerate this. How should I react. How should I control my anger against him. Pls advice me swamiji.
Posted by Sangeetha Nair on September 16, 2011
Dear Sangeethaji,
You know that the problem lies in your mind, that is, the mind getting stuck up in the past mistakes done by him.
As your compassion grows, you will be able to forgive him and serve him in his last days.
If you miss it now, you may regret later that you should have done that at least out of charity, if not love.
So, at least do not stop your mother from such a divine service.
Remember, it is human to serve whom you love, but it is divine to serve whom you don’t love.
HariOm!
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