1:36nihhatya dhārtarāṣṭrān naḥ kā prītiḥ syāj janārdanapāpam evāśrayed asmān hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ1:37tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ dhārtarāṣṭrān svabāndhavānsvajanaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava In Śloka 36 and 37, Arjuna
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Swamiji the problem I want your opinion is this Mother shouts at the daughter asking her to study during exams.The child is 14 years old.The father says to the mother to keep quiet in front of the child and tell the mother that what ever my daughter is able to write let her write.If she is not scoring good marks i can handle it .when it is not a problem for me why do you botherand what ever is in the fait only will happen.The father feels if we tell the child any thing she may become emotional and do something which we will have to repent.The child is so sttuborn that it is 3 weeks now the child is not talking to the mother and the father is not making effort in asking the child to talk to the mother.The mother feels what have i done wrong.We are giving a wrong impression on the child to not to try at all.If we try and then get less mark or anything else ,that is fait. but without trying saying this is my fait ,is this right.Now the situation has taken so far that the parents don’t talk,nor the girl is talking to her mother .When the mother tried advisind the daughter about why she is not talking to her,the father interfers to says let your mother say anything ,don’t bother .Is this right.Does a mothert have any right to correct the child.Yes i agree that when the mother starts to shout she screams on top oof her voice.Please advise all the three.
Posted by K.S. Beena Unni on October 7, 2012
Dear Beenaji,
All are stuck up with their egoistic minds and try to prove that they are right and others are wrong.
Mutual respect is the most essential thing to bring harmony in all relations.
There love and care will follow.
When the situation is very bad, apply ‘Silence, Smile and Service’.
All frictions will become smooth very soon.
When the family prays together and meditates together, their love will flourish.
HariOm!
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