GREETINGS

Pranam Swamiji, I am a working person,. i have a small issue in my family.I belong to a Nair family and i want to get married to a person who is hindu only but belongs to a different caste.He is educated settled and from a middle class family.I have suffered a lot of tortures both mentally and physically from my relatives and parents to drop this relationship.But i believe in the culture that a person has rather than his caste.I have very clearly told my parents that i cannot mary any other person other than this guy.My parents still keep on asking me , telling me about proposals and things.I am fed up of telling them.The only reason because of which i am staying back for their consent is because, they are pretty old and i want to take care of them.The person whom i want to marry would never stop me from taking care of my parents.He and his family also have suffered a lot of insult because of my parents attittude.But still they never have asked me to disobey my parents.You have seen people with variety of experiences right please guide me how i can solve this problem amicably and how i can make my parents understand that my guy might be low in his caste but not in his culture..