GREETINGS

Hello sir / madam I am nithya , married age 32 . I am worried about my husband ,he is a software engineer .he is 34 and have a daughter . now I will explain u about my husbands family, his mother is deaf and dumb. he has father and a sister . His mother is very arrogant by nature to every one expect her kids . he had very pathetic child hood Cox of his mother Cox she always fight with every one in family . he is a good student at school . though he did not do his engineering , it was through his hard work and effort he became an software professional. though he is very intelligent he cannot stick to a job for more than a year . reason is he is very straight forward . He cannot adjust wit his superiors , wherein he is very friendly with his low level colleagues . basically he is very short tempered . And with this behavior he creates bad opinion every where . but he always fight for genuine reason but this cause enmity every where . He evaluate people according to his thinking . he always want people around him to think and act as he does . I used to advice him that every one are not alike we have to adjust with people around he starts fighting with me also . He good in nature but easily make good relations and then easily spoils it . I don’t know how to change his attitude . Most of time he speaks negative thoughts about his carrier and health . From the first year of our marriage he is worried of his health . even if small diseases come he say he has tumour or stroke he is going to die soon , he even cry . He is not at having a brave heart . I am fed up with his nature . He is a person who does every thing to me but in end I am not Happy cox of his tongue . his tongue is sharper than sword . Pl help how to change my husbands attitude and make him positive in every